Bitcoin JSON RPC no funciona en IP remota

no puedo hacer que funcione primero pude usar bitcoind en mi vps (localmente) pero cuando agregué rpcbind y allowip a mi bitcoin.conf ni siquiera puedo usar bitcoin-cli me está dando este error: error: Autorización fallida: Incorrecto rpcuser o rpcpassword mientras estoy usando exactamente el mismo pase de usuario que en mi configuración

curl me está dando una respuesta vacía en el puerto "8333" y la conexión se rechazó en el puerto 8332

aquí está mi bitcoin.conf [IP eliminada y usuario/contraseña]

(Estaba usando este antes cuando funcionaba localmente)

listen=1
server=1
rpcport=8332
prune=600
maxconnections=12
maxuploadtarget=20
rpcuser=XXXXX
rpcpassword=XXXXX
daemon=1
keypool=10000

ahora cuando intento que funcione en mi servidor remoto con esta configuración

# Generated by https://jlopp.github.io/bitcoin-core-config-generator/

# This config should be placed in following path:
# ~/.bitcoin/bitcoin.conf
server=1
# [core]
# Maintain a full transaction index, used by the getrawtransaction rpc call.
# Run in the background as a daemon and accept commands.
daemon=1
# Reduce storage requirements by only storing most recent N MiB of block. This mode is incompatible with -txindex and -rescan. WARNING: Reverting this setting requires re-downloading the entire blockchain. (default: 0 = disable pruning blocks, 1 = allow manual pruning via RPC, greater than 550 = automatically prune blocks to stay under target size in MiB).
prune=600

# [rpc]
# Accept public REST requests.
rest=1
# Bind to given address to listen for JSON-RPC connections. This option is ignored unless -rpcallowip is also passed. Port is optional and overrides -rpcport. Use [host]:port notation for IPv6. This option can be specified multiple times. (default: 127.0.0.1 and ::1 i.e., localhost, or if -rpcallowip has been specified, 0.0.0.0 and :: i.e., all addresses)
rpcbind=~MY REMOTE VPS PUBLIC IP~
# Username and hashed password for JSON-RPC connections. The field <userpw> comes in the format: <USERNAME>:<SALT>$<HASH>. RPC clients connect using rpcuser=<USERNAME>/rpcpassword=<PASSWORD> arguments. You can generate this value with the ./share/rpcauth/rpcauth.py script in the Bitcoin Core repository. This option can be specified multiple times.
rpcuser=XXXXXXX
rpcpassword=XXXXXXXX
# Allow JSON-RPC connections from specified source. Valid for <ip> are a single IP (e.g. 1.2.3.4), a network/netmask (e.g. 1.2.3.4/255.255.255.0) or a network/CIDR (e.g. 1.2.3.4/24). This option can be specified multiple times.
rpcallowip=~MY HOST IP~
# Number of seconds after which an uncompleted RPC call will time out
rpcservertimeout=60

# [wallet]
# Legacy
addresstype=legacy
# Legacy
changetype=legacy
# Set key pool size to <n>. Recommended to use a large number for high volume non-HD wallets.
keypool=10000
# If paytxfee is not set, include enough fee so that transactions should confirm within <n> blocks
txconfirmtarget=3
# Broadcast transactions created by the wallet.
walletbroadcast=0
# Run a thread to flush wallet periodically.
flushwallet=0


# [Sections]
# Most options automatically apply to mainnet, testnet, and regtest networks.
# If you want to confine an option to just one network, you should add it in the relevant section.
# EXCEPTIONS: The options addnode, connect, port, bind, rpcport, rpcbind and wallet
# only apply to mainnet unless they appear in the appropriate section below.

maxconnections=12
maxuploadtarget=20

# Options only for mainnet
[main]

# Options only for testnet
[test]

# Options only for regtest
[regtest]